thoughts – A B B Y N S T A . C O M

Who can live a positive life while having a negative mind? :)

It’s not always fun, and everything is not always easy. We have all been there – situations where not everything is like what we wanted it to be.

Life has ups and downs, and the real victory lies in how we go through these downs and survive. Friends that cheat on you, stressful job, love failure or let be anything else that make the life unfair.

We all fight with something or someone, but are we all able to take it with a smile? Do we all have the capability to accept things their way and think that everything happens for a reason? 😉 Some of us get used to it, “my life sucks forever” – some of us just think “ok everything is my fault”, and again some of us see the opportunity to learn in whatever happens. Which one are you? How do you deal with the difficulties you meet in your everyday life?

When I was younger I could easily get mad at people, and whenever someone gave me some critics I got so annoyed. By time I learned myself to think positive, and accept everyone and everything as it is. Because, nothing will get better if you behave negatively. Today I’m that kind of person who don’t get stressed, I don’t get mad at anyone. Moreover, if someone ever tries to hurt me, I just smile.

It’s not always easy to be cool and “take it easy”. If someone says something annoying or cruel, it’s not everyone who can just leave it.

Here are some simple, but very useful “mantras” to stay positive:

1. Surround yourself with positive minded people

Meaning that you have to surround yourself with people, who light and lift you up, and keep your circle positive. Encourage each other and support each other. Ask yourself:

Who are the most negative people in your circle? When being around with them, how do they affect your mood and behavior? Do they have any kind of bad energy and does this reduce your positive thinking and performance? If yes – you don’t need them in your life, because you don’t need anyone whose only intention is to bring you down!

2. It’s not only about yourself

Try to put positivity and value into someone else’s life, and make them happy. Knowing that you are the reason behind their smile makes your life so beautiful. Surely, it will encourage you too.

3. Keep moving

Exercise has shown to be very good for your whole thinking, as it releases positive chemicals into your blood. Do any kind of exercise you like, let it be strength training, dance, boxing, swimming or something else. Of course, this is good for the body too! 🙂

4. Have a beautiful language

A positive language makes a positive mind. It’s that simple 😉

Use more of these positive words, and quit all those negative words – do we ever like people who always talk negatively to others? No? True 😉

5. Everything is okay

Whatever happens, keep telling yourself that “everything is okay”. Nobody is gonna hurt you, nobody is getting mad just because something didn’t work out. Yes, it takes time, but stress is worse.

Hugs <3

I’m a knowledge junkie, searching my fix

Past 2 days at work have been very relaxing. I had so much time to complete some papers for the audiology assistant-students and the coming students from the Uni. of Southern DK. In addition, I could make some other stuff ready for those starting tomorrow, and got clarified some doubts by my boss.

It’s been raining almost every day since May, and everyone’s waiting for the summer to come. I hope the weather will be appropriate coming Friday, as we have planned a summer party that day. I’m also a part of this planning team, and yesterday I went to Storcenter Nord for buying some gifts for the games, we’ll be playing at the party. This will actually be the first time I’m participating in a party with colleagues, and I’m looking forward to this one 🙂

I’ve been way too excited about being this kind of “lecturer”/teacher/whatever. I’ve always loved teaching, my life as a teacher actually started many years back – in 2008. Starting at one point as a music teacher in Carnatic music, I’m now here; a special educational lecturer in Audiology. My dream came true, I’m where I thought I would be in 3-4 years. Yes, life is a miracle, and how you use your knowledge, and how you combine it with your talent is an art for itself. Knowing your strength and weakness makes you strong, and changing your weakness into strength is what it’s all about. Now I’m here, I’m exactly where I wanted to be. But as we reach our goals, new aims will be emerging. Creating the path to success is all in your hand 😉

June, here I come 😀

May month has been full of unhealthy food (unfortunately 😛 ), so I’ve put of following aims to be achieved:

Training 3 times a week. I didn’t go that much to fitness last month, as I tried some other ways instead. But that was not enough, and I have to lose some weight 😛
Walking at least 3 or 4 times a week.
Eat more of healthy food, and avoid eating out.
Spending more time on myself. I know I’ve been so much busy with spending time with others, and work. June and July are definitely going to be some tough months, as I’ll be working long shifts. Nevertheless, this should not prevent me from spending more time on myself 😉
Studying Hinduism. I love studying about my religion, and I’ve been posting several articles and smaller posts about Hinduism, that’ll be useful for many. However, I feel like getting away from this, so I have to be back on track, and study something I don’t know, and I have to share whatever I know and learn about Hinduism. Being the daughter of those, who started these “religious activities” in Herning, I feel privileged and happy, that both my parents know so much on religion, language and culture, which I have to share 😉 Moreover, my mum teaches Hinduism and Tamil, and I’m happy that both my brother and I learn from her, and of course my dad too.
Finally yet importantly, I should avoid spending too much money on diverse stuff.

Let’s see, if all these are going to happen or not 😛

Good night lovelies 😉